Overview
In Pickford & Pickford the Full Court (Division 1 appellate jurisdiction) allowed a father’s appeal from final parenting orders because the first-instance process miscarried in a way that denied procedural fairness, and because multiple findings that the father perpetrated “family violence” (particularly coercive/controlling behaviour) were not legally or factually open on the evidence. The parenting proceedings were remitted for re-hearing, confined to the question of what “spend time” orders should be made under s 64B(2)(b).
The case is a strong reminder that in parenting litigation:
- procedural fairness is not optional, even in “long-running” cases; and
- family violence findings must be made with forensic rigour, by reference to the statutory definition, the pleaded/argued limb(s), and evidence capable of supporting the evaluative conclusion.
1) Procedural fairness: “extraneous evidence” and the impossibility of having it both ways
A central appeal error was this sequence:
- the father applied (while judgment was reserved) to re-open evidence;
- the primary judge dismissed the application; but then
- still took the new affidavit material into account, and did so without cross-examination of either party on that fresh material.
The Full Court treated that as a serious error: once evidence is rejected (because the case is not re-opened), it cannot then be used in deciding contested issues. Compounding that, the parties were deprived of the chance to test controversial material in cross-examination. The Court linked this to the classic procedural fairness problem of relying on material not admitted into evidence and found the error was material because it fed into findings that affected the ultimate “spend time” orders.
Practical significance (children’s matters):
- If a judge proposes to rely on post-trial material, the court must ensure it is admitted properly (re-opening) and the other side has a genuine opportunity to meet it (including cross-examination where required).
- “Efficiency” or the length of proceedings does not justify shortcuts where the result turns on disputed facts relevant to parenting outcomes.
2) Family violence findings: the Court’s insistence on disciplined fact-finding
The appeal is also significant because it pushes back against a drift sometimes seen in parenting litigation: treating high conflict, hard bargaining, or ordinary litigation conduct as “family violence” without a careful statutory fit.
2.1 The statutory task: s 4AB, evidence, and the need for objective evaluation
The Full Court emphasised that allegations of family violence are not proven facts merely because they are made; they require the same forensic approach as any other disputed factual issue, including:
- the burden of proof on the party alleging it; and
- proof on the balance of probabilities (Evidence Act s 140).
A key recurring error identified was the primary judge treating the mother’s “experience and perception” of conduct as sufficient for coercive/controlling findings, without doing the necessary evaluative work of testing:
- what the conduct actually was,
- the context (including any innocent explanation),
- its intensity and pattern (if relied upon),
- and the evidence of impact beyond assertion.
2.2 Intention: often important, not an essential element
The judgments contain careful discussion about intention:
- McClelland DCJ (agreeing with the result) accepted that while intention will “very often be decisive” in coercive/controlling assessments, it is not essential to a finding.
- Aldridge & Carew JJ likewise stressed that the focus is on behaviour and impact, and the court should not become distracted by searching for intention as a necessary ingredient.
For practitioners, the takeaway is not “intention is irrelevant” — it’s that the legal test is not a criminal mens rea inquiry, but an evaluative characterisation of conduct against s 4AB, proved by evidence.
2.3 A major warning: litigation positions are not “family violence” merely because they cause stress
Some of the most pointed appellate criticism concerned findings that effectively treated the father’s pursuit of ordinary legal rights as family violence—for example, findings based on him:
- not consenting to funding/partial property settlement orders sought by the mother,
- maintaining an application for parenting outcomes the mother opposed,
- pursuing an injunction application,
- objecting to counselling initiatives,
- raising concerns about the mother’s mental health (despite independent evidence of fragility).
The Full Court was blunt: a litigant does not commit family violence by refusing to capitulate to the other party’s orders. There are statutory tools for truly abusive litigation (including the newer Pt XIB regime), but that is a different inquiry, and this case was not an example of it.
Why this matters in children’s cases:
Family violence findings powerfully shape the “best interests” analysis, risk assessment, and ultimately time arrangements. If findings are made too loosely—by conflating conflict, firmness, or litigation conduct with coercive control—orders may be built on an unstable foundation.
2.4 The Court also questioned whether the family violence “finding exercise” was even necessary here
Another important strand: Austin & Williams JJ observed the parenting dispute at trial was relatively narrow (how many nights per fortnight in school terms, against a backdrop of long-standing interim arrangements). They highlighted authority cautioning against making unnecessary factual findings unless they authentically bear on the orders to be made—especially where the true statutory focus should be on future risk rather than adjudicating every contested historical grievance.
3) Independent Children’s Lawyer: limits on “monitoring” orders after judgment
A further, highly practical point for children’s matters: the primary judge purported to appoint an ICL for 12 months post-judgment to “monitor and assist” with implementation and gave leave for the ICL to relist the proceedings. The Full Court held those orders were ultra vires, “aspirational and unenforceable,” and inconsistent with the judicial function. If enforcement issues arise, parties must bring the appropriate fresh application (e.g., contravention) rather than converting the ICL into an ongoing quasi-case manager.
4) Key takeaways for practice (and for understanding how judges will approach these issues)
Procedural fairness
- Evidence not admitted is not available for findings.
- If fresh evidence is to be used, the matter must be properly re-opened and procedural steps (including cross-examination if needed) must follow.
Family violence findings
- Coercive/control findings require an objective evaluative assessment of conduct in context; a party’s perception alone is not enough (though it may be relevant evidence of impact).
- Do not automatically equate conflict or firm litigation conduct with “family violence.”
- Pleading/prosecuting the correct limb matters: coercion/control and “fear” operate differently and must be matched to evidence.
Orders and enforceability
- Avoid “wish list” orders that are not grounded in power or are not enforceable in practice (the ICL “monitoring” orders are a clear example).

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